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by: Bettie Witherspoon

March 4, 2005

1. Courage...

to do the right thing even when it is difficult: This is one of the avenues we are exploring this week, on our trek to character development.

 For our young students, we start with a lively mixture of language and social development.  We propose some situations.  Then we ask, "What is right?"  "Who did something wrong?  What was it?"  "What is courage?"    Discussions, puppet plays, role playing, stories and poems are the order of the day.  We may also draw on actual incidents during the day.  As always, being a good role model tops the list

2. Courage - You Gotta Have Heart:

Can you think of situations to illustrate this truism?  (Please share.)  Example: Verbal abuse is rampant, in homes, in schools, on the highways, in the workplace, in the marketplace, on TV, in music, even in radio, I am told.  An individual may be afraid to object when he hears someone call another a name that is degrading or demeaning.  But a courageous individual may speak up, and say, "We don't use that language here."   "I don't like to hear that."  "That is not a nice way to talk and it is not true.  Joe is a nice person."  If he does this, the damage to the injured one is reduced.  Joe feels less degraded because someone cares enough to speak up for him.  Chances that verbal abuse will escalate to the physical are also curtailed.

If a child happens to observe this exchange, even better, he learns that verbal abuse is unacceptable, and that speaking up for others is worthy.

3. Right Thing, Right Reasons, Right Time - Continued:

Marsha Fais offers some ideas for this ongoing query:

  • Giving back too much change to the cashier when they make an error

  • Returning someone's possessions if they drop them in the street

  • Taking the time to REmail something that doesn't belong to you even if the mailman put it in your mailbox

Opportunities to practice these three "R"s occur to all of us at some time during our daily and weekly travels.  Thank you, Marsha, for reminding us that we all have many chances to do the "right thing".

I am reminded that Abraham Lincoln, while working in a little store, once walked X miles to return a customer's overpayment.  I think it was twelve miles but that might have been his birthday.

4. Shining Stars:

Congratulations to this years Shining Stars who will receive their awards at the Mayors' Shining Star Gala on April 9, 2005 at the Ramada Inn.  Recipients are World War II Purple Heart Veteran George Medary for    (cont.)

Lifetime Achievement; Jodi Hiles, Individual; Heros and Ladies Mentors, Organization; and Triangle Repro of East Windsor, Business/Industry.  Tickets are $75.  Program Ads range from $75 for a business-card-size to $600 for the back cover.  Sponsor opportunities range from $2000, platinum to $500, bronze.  Items for silent auction are needed.

Artisan George Medary, frequent donator of many special handmade items in the past, has three items underway.  Generous contributor Jackie Bodin, a regular sponsor, has already made a contribution that exceeds the platinum.  We are off to a great start!

5. In our Corner:

It is always easier to be courageous when you have friends to help.  This week ours included First Washington Community Foundation, Inc. who furnished an entire classroom with needed furniture, including tables, chairs, literacy corner and more.  Thank you, First Washington, for providing a safe, comfortable learning environment for our young students.

Harry Horowitz made a contribution in honor of Susan Greenan, with his thanks for her helpfulness.  Joseph and Sylvia Hadad made a contribution in memory of Carmine Petito’s Mother.  Her Tuesday night card friends also made a memorial contribution.

Our “Mr. Jonathan” Craig’s offerings included snacks, children’s books, dress-up clothing, and winter clothing.  “Miss Dee” Murphy donated clothing, food and miscellaneous, interesting items.   The Borough of Hightstown remembered “Tuesday is Paper Day” with a box of white paper; and Karen McGuinnens donated stuffed animals, CD’s, educational toys and games.

Thank you everyone.

6. Penny Pincher Flips her Lids:

Never even think about tossing your lids or jar tops in the garbage.  Penny has many uses for them, as game pieces, for sorting, as stencils, as palettes for painting, as saucers under plants.  Coffee can lids also make neat, small Frisbees.

7. Two Cents Wordth:

Courage is built on the French word, "Cour", meaning heart.  When is it courageous, or "the better part of valor" to turn your back and walk away?   What was the "cowardly" lion looking for?   Did he find what he was looking for?  Where?

Is a Coward the bovine equivalent of Shepherd?   Or is it the direction we take when we are walking towards the herd of cows?  When a person cows another person, why is he called a bully?

8. Help Wanted:

Volunteers are needed.   Immediate needs are for computer techs., Spanish translators, and Music makers.  Also needed, assistance with the Gala.


Comments, Ideas, Suggestions?

If you have comments, suggestions, examples of “showing courage even when it is difficult”, an idea for Penny Pincher, wordiness for Two Cents, want to donate, contribute, or volunteer, please write to us at PO Box 187, Hightstown, NJ. 08520 or
bewith@mail2peace.com, or call 609-448-6226, Luz Nereida Horta, Executive Director. Want to know more about us, visit www.princetonol.com/groups/bbcdc, volunteer webmeister Liston Abbott.

Bettie Witherspoon is a former executive director of Better Beginnings, which has provided affordable child care to the East Windsor/Hightstown area since 1967.


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