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June 11, 2004

Dads: Stand and be Counted:

Dads, your children need you.  They need your love, your nurturing, your role modeling, and your guidance including but not limited to positive discipline.  For those who are separated, remember that regardless of how often you see or talk to your child, your influence is strong.  Your child needs to know that you care about him 

   

and love him.   Oh sure, they can get along without you, but their chances of making the most of their lives and reaching their full potential improve when you are in their corner. For you Dads who conscientiously parent and support your children, you are much admired, and we salute you.



Fathers of the Community: You Count for So Much
We are so grateful to all of those who are "Like-a-Dads", and those who volunteer to fulfill the role of Fathers of the Community.  When I say that, two men jump into my mind immediately:  Dr. David Abalos and Al Werner. These men are constantly available to our youth, constantly monitoring what is happening with our youth, and providing services, encouragement, expertise, and much more.

Men throughout our community give of their time and selves for others.  Closest to us, are those who are involved with Better Beginnings, in one way or another.  This is especially important because our staff is entirely female.
 
At the head of the parade is Liston Abbott, who for 35+ years has been involved in guiding and giving to Better Beginnings.  He also regularly mentors young potential Engineers and has been involved in many charitable activities.  Pete Bussone generously spares and shares time, energy, expertise and bounty with us in many ways.  Male classroom volunteers are very, very important.   Mr. Jerry Turkle has been a caring role model for years.   Mr. Jonathan Craig finds many ways to be supportive.  Others that help in various ways including repairs, classroom support, food service, computer repair, fundraising and more include Jose Calmo, Freddie Howard, Marcel

    Covington, Jim Dalrymple, Michael Hennessy, Christopher Hennessy, Gregory Everett, Scott Young, Emil Kohut, Warren Wilson.

This category also includes the volunteer firemen, our Police officers, and our volunteer rescue squad.  Any time we have ever had to call any of these, they respond so fast, they seem to be at Better Beginnings almost before we return the telephone to the cradle.  In addition, they do other protective things and provider things such as collect toys for Christmas and answer wide-eyed questions at classroom visits.

It also includes all those in our community who coach, mentor and otherwise offer time and caring for our children.  The Big Daddy of this category is John Fiore, whose caring ways extend way beyond his P.A.L. duties.  Not so obvious, but still in the protective, guiding role are those who give their time and talent in governance roles, including Mayoring and Counciling, as well as serving on Committees.

There are many others, of course.  These are just a sample.

Thank you so much, all you guys, you are needed and sincerely appreciated.



Like-A-Dad, the Greatest by my Account:
In our family, our Like-A-Dad role model is George Medary.  He is one of the "Greatest Generation" who demonstrated perseverance by working hard every day regardless of the fact that he was severely wounded in World War II.

It never occurred to him at any time to "lay back".   He is one of those who never talked about his experience except to say that God had spared him for a reason and he sought always to help others.   He was our original Santa at Better Beginnings.  He bought his own Santa suit for the purpose and really got into that role for many years, so much so that he actually wore out his Santa suit.  He is a talented woodworker and through the years made many items for us, including cabinets, large wheel toys, and beautiful items for our 

    auctions.  He extended his caring beyond our own family (where he was a loving kindness role model, sharing and giving of his wisdom, time, and bounty).  He is a Past Exalted Ruler of the Elks 1955.  There he had a special interest in their Crippled Children project.  Also, if you visit the Elks, you will find the bar he made for them when the building was new.  He loved to camp and had many friends in a local camping club.   When he traveled, and he and my sister did enjoy traveling, he would always offer to take my young daughter with him, giving her some of her best memories. We love him.

He is my choice for Like-A-Dad of the century.



Penny Pincher Counts Calories:
One easy way to overcome obesity and save money at the same time is to stop buying junk food. The Pincher doesn't mind      spending money. She just hates to spend it on junk.


Heartfriends Count the Ways:
Play with toys
Read a book
Go outside
Ride bike
Go to sleep
Play with friends
Do homework
Walk around doing nothing
Read to your family
    Play with my brother
Go to the park

They also gave reasons "Why we shouldn't watch too much TV":

Hurts your eyes
Makes your brain hurt
You forget what you learn at school



Counting our Blessings:
Homer Justice is "one in a million" a man who marches the march, and in the meantime, finds many ways to give support. He sent a generous contribution this week, much appreciated as we near the end of our fiscal year, and every little bit helps us make it to the end.

Reading is important, and the Kiks organization at Kreps School, through the Childrens Home Society, underscored this 

    for our children with a recent book drive in which they collected and donated 76 books for our children. "Mr. Jonathan" Craig weighed in with pennies, playground balls, and a stamp collection. Carol Dailey also added to our penny collection, and the Dutch Neck Presbyterian Nursery School again remembered us with learning tools, including wooden puzzles. To all, many thanks for your support.

If you have comments, suggestions, an idea for Penny Pincher, want to donate, contribute, or volunteer, please write to us at PO Box 187, Hightstown, NJ. 08520 or bewith@mail2peace.com, or call 609-448-6226, Luz Nereida Horta, Executive Director. Want to know more about us, visit www.princetonol.com/groups/bbcdc, volunteer webmeister Liston Abbott.
 
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